blast from the past

I had conversations with two of my exes tonight: Lil' Bit and Snapple. So different, and yet so alike.

Lil' Bit is moving to New York. I am slightly terrified. It's really hard to explain - I guess I don't believe a lot of what she says. She has grown up a bit, and I think that she'll probably do well in the city, but having her living on my street (which she'll be doing, albeit twenty minutes away) is really freaky.

While Lil' Bit is able to joke about our past relationship, Snapple is still really hurt. She mentioned a couple of times in her recent messages to me that she had a flight credit that was going to expire - this credit, of course, dates back to last fall, when I told her not to visit me. I still feel horrible about that, and once again offered to reimburse her for the ticket - it's the right thing to do, even if it is horribly expensive.

I still care about both of them a lot, but nights like tonight make me wonder why I have this need to be friends with my exes.

it is so hot here

(How hot is it?)

It is so hot that in the block it took me to walk home from the bodega, my ice cold beer became lukewarm. Yuk.

i'm back home

For a few minutes. Headed to go work. My place of employment doesn't have air conditioning. It was unbearable last night, and I think it's going to be worse tonight. I am NOT looking forward to it.

Temping tomorrow. I'll try to give you some details.

stuff

I just shared this thought with my dad about an hour ago:

I think it's very strange that, during my time in undergrad and grad school I accumulated all of this stuff - sheets, towels, furniture. Seven and a half years worth of life. And then, poof! I move across the country to Sleepy Hamlet, and I leave my previous life (and most of my stuff) behind, and I start to collect more stuff. Three years' worth.

Then I was kind of homeless for a year, wandering from city to city, and so I mailed some of the West Coast stuff back to my parents' house, where my East Coast stuff had been gathering dust. And it all sat in their basement.

So now I've got some of it with me in New York, and some of it is all over my parents' place, and some of it has disappeared into the ether. But sometimes I stumble over something, and it's like discovering an artifact from the Dark Ages. I remember places and faces and moments, and sometimes it's sad and sometimes it's nice. But it's always thrilling.

It's funny where stuff can take you sometimes.

this is awesome

I'm an Usher fan, but maybe he should let these guys do ALL of his videos. Make sure you watch through the rap section.

rained out

I was so looking forward to tonight's Yankees-Pirates baseball game. I've rooted for both teams since I was a little kid, so I knew that it would be a weird experience, but it was exciting to see both of them on the same field.

Unfortunately, the dream lasted 2 1/3 innings. The game got rained out. And the make-up date - scheduled for July 10 - is the day before I leave for my getaway weekend to Montreal with Maxine. So that's not gonna happen.

At least I got to spend some quality time with my parents. We still managed to have fun. And Mother Nature put on quite the light show for us.

murphy's law strikes again

written on an Amtrak train, somewhere west of Lancaster, PA

I’m sitting here, working my way through the New York Times – it took two hours, not bad – when my cell rings. Unknown number. That usually means it’s the temp agency I work for.

And I’m right. They have a job for me, finally. It’s at a company that I’ve worked at before; the place pays well, the environment is relaxed, and I know several people that work there. And they want me until I leave at the end of July, meaning I would financial security for months.

The catch?

It starts tomorrow.

They had to give it to someone else. That sucks. But what can you do? Plan your life around hypothetical phone calls?

Besides, not to be overly sentimental, but spending a couple of days with my parents far exceeds any amount of money I could earn at a temp job.

mini-vacay

I'm headed to Pittsburgh for a few days - meeting with some theaters and going to catch the Yankees-Pirates game on Thursday, which will be notable because it's one of those rare occasions where my father and I are rooting for different teams. Should be fun.

I've got ten-hour train rides on both Wednesday and Saturday, so I may be a little slow in getting the posts up. Still, you'll hear from me soon. Hope that everyone has a great week!

butter floor

I feel kinda bad that I'm laughing at this...but it's pretty hilarious.

my feet hurt...

...from standing all night at work.

I love the people that I work with, but I'll be happy when I don't have to have a side job anymore. I'm hopeful that that could happen within the next couple of years.

I'm off tomorrow, so I'll come up with something intelligent then. Right now I'm going to relax for a while and then go to bed.

i hate ticketmaster

Is it even possible to buy tickets to an event on there? Seriously?

I logged on to buy Steeler tickets today, and I got nothing. I got the ticket screen to come up once, but then it disappeared. That makes me so mad. Sure, most of western Pennsylvania was probably trying to buy tickets too, but I should at least be able to get close, right? I tried for 45 straight minutes!

Ridiculous.

wow

I'm a bit speechless.

OK.

Remember, a couple of days ago, when I mentioned that something big was happening, only I couldn't tell you what it was, because it wasn't finalized?

Well, it's a good thing that I didn't tell you, because it's not happening.

Because I got something a little bigger.

Remember, last week, when I was complaining about reauditioning for a play I had already done?

Yeah - I got the part.

Again.

My agent is ecstatic. I kind of feel defiant. Like, you know when you're watching a football game, and a player makes a big hit, and then he pops up and just glares like he's not satisfied yet, and the crowd is going wild? That's how I feel.

I fuckin' blew up those auditions. I said to my agent, "I don't know who is going to get this part, but I know who should get it. ME." I'm not usually this cocky about stuff, but I honestly felt like someone was trying to steal my job - a job that I had done pretty well. And I think, in that situation, when someone is trying to steal your stuff, you fight like hell.

Yeah.

Six months of work, bitches.

tired...

...from running around all day. I had to audition for a role I already had today, and then interview for a job I'm currently doing. This did not make me happy. So now I'm going to take my contacts out, watch some TV, prep for my callback tomorrow (also for the job I already did) and go to sleep. The end.

on the horizon...

...something is brewing.

I can't tell you what it is yet, because it isn't finalized...but it would provide for an interesting blogging experience.

So, I'm going to stop writing now, before I spill the beans.

how to console a disappointed theatergoer

written via text message

Sorry you didn't get tickets. I'll try you in a couple of hours. Maybe you should go to the movies instead!

it went well

Conversation was successful. I think things are all good.

I had an exhausting night at work tonight (there were something like a dozen fights) so I'll save my comments for tomorrow.

another truth

I feel like I need to apologize to some of you, because lately I have been less than forthright. I know, that shouldn't be too big of a deal, because it's my blog, and I can say what I want, right? Part of the reason why I have this, however, is to write about my life with honesty. That's why I use a handle instead of my real name, and why I've created the fun names for places I work, etc. What's the good of these devices if I'm not going to take advantage of them?

Anyway, the truth: I've been dating Maxine again for the past three months. The hows and whys of that are better answered in a longer post, if anyone cares to hear about it. It's not an exclusive relationship, but I have been pretty faithful, because more and more I've been thinking that being with her is what I really and truly want.

The capper to my hellacious week was a two-part fight that she and I had on Friday night. The details of what we fought over aren't that important. I will say that she has violated my trust - which was one of the reasons why I was reluctant to get back together with her in the first place - and that I was so angry that I was kicking things in my apartment on Friday night/early Saturday morning.

I've since cooled off (not that I don't have concerns about my anger levels since the incident, which is why I think I should be going to therapy), and I'm now preparing myself to ask some very difficult questions, both to her and to me. Now, last night, the prospect of asking these questions was terrifying, which is probably why I got rip-roaring drunk at a friend's birthday party. I woke up this morning, however, feeling surprisingly calm about what has to be done.

(I also woke up hungover, but that was to be expected. I finished the night with the Champagne of Beers - never a good sign.)

I think that, ultimately, this will be a good thing. Still, if you were to wish me luck, I wouldn't mind. I'll let you know how it goes.

a long week

written in my notebook at work

This is one of those weeks that I'm SO happy to see end. Deaths, floods, lies, arguments, disappointments - this week had it all. And I was personally moved to extreme fury at least three times. That's not good.

I think I need to go to therapy.

Tim Russert 1950-2008

He died today, of an apparent heart attack, at 58 years old (the same age as my father). I just found out, and I am in total shock.

I've been a political junkie for years, and I've always enjoyed watching the Sunday morning shows. This year I've been spending lots of time watching Russert, both on MSNBC and on Meet The Press. He had such a kind and gentle way about him - but he also had the ability to cut through a lot of the crap and get right to the heart of the matter. And the depth and breadth of his knowledge was astounding.

It's really hard to imagine Sunday mornings without him (as well as the rest of this election cycle, which he was all over). He will be missed.

rate your restroom!

When I was a little kid and my family would go out to eat, I would always have to use the bathroom in the restaurant, without fail. It happened so often that my parents would joke that I was rating the bathrooms. For a while I would come back with a star rating.

So when I found this website today, I knew that I would have to send it to my family. (And, quite frankly, I can't believe this even exists!)

There's a vote for the top restroom in America; let me know which one you pick. You can probably figure out which one I'll be picking...