tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10595285.post115206524052372160..comments2023-11-05T04:16:15.203-08:00Comments on Fried Catfish & Collard Greens: a rambling explosion of feeling (you've been warned)The Roverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14466612618338867286noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10595285.post-1152508399312357472006-07-09T22:13:00.000-07:002006-07-09T22:13:00.000-07:00Don't feel bad for not calling! I didn't, either....Don't feel bad for not calling! I didn't, either. I guess I just needed to be in a funk. We gotta do it sometimes, ya know?<BR/><BR/>And while I think that you've got a point, L. Britt, I know that this time it wasn't one particular person that brought this on. It was more just feeling like I didn't have a community.The Roverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14466612618338867286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10595285.post-1152159596823113262006-07-05T21:19:00.000-07:002006-07-05T21:19:00.000-07:00I, for one, should have called. I also felt "uncal...I, for one, should have called. I also felt "uncalled" for 4th festivities. Bah. I went out for sushi. We should have made it a sushi party for several instead of 2. <BR/><BR/>Jesus, I totally should have called. We both should have. Next time I'm feeling uncalled I'm calling your ass. You've been warned. <BR/><BR/>And L's right - it's often a certain someone not calling that makes you feel lonliest of all... even in this densely populated metropolis.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639118563136132915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10595285.post-1152120064151448722006-07-05T10:21:00.000-07:002006-07-05T10:21:00.000-07:00Completely understandable...I've been there myself...Completely understandable...I've been there myself...quite a bit actually recently with the job loss and the crappy state of marriage...I need to spend some time examing myself and figuring out what makes me happy.<BR/><BR/>At least you're doing what you love...I'm confident you'll find peace and happiness with your situation soon enough...at least I hope you will.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there!DHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16166612237904839933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10595285.post-1152073235306512002006-07-04T21:20:00.000-07:002006-07-04T21:20:00.000-07:00That's more than okay. I have felt that way many ...That's more than okay. I have felt that way many times. One of the biggest things I had to overcome is redefining with whom I wanted to create community. There have been plenty of people in my life who reach out, but because of my own issues wanted to be a part of "certain" crowd, I never heard them. Once I put down my "cool" blinders, I was able to find friends that have changed my life.<BR/><BR/>Feeling like you're not being called is often not being called by a certain person. I know that emotion VERY well.L. Britthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11636048549849790456noreply@blogger.com